Thursday, December 15, 2016

Conditioned to feel ashamed

We live in a society where we are conditioned to feel ashamed of ourselves.

Do not fall into the trap,
Never be ashamed of any decision you make,

No matter how many people tell you how wrong you are.

Be proud of your decision,
Learn from it and don't repeat it.

Or do.

It’s all up to you,
These are your choices to make,
This is your life to live.

It's ok to repeat our mistakes
It’s ok to make the same decisions,
We all move at our own pace.

Take your time.
Chill, laugh and be kind.

Wednesday, December 14, 2016

You don't have any problems.

You don't have any problems.

You don't have any problems,
It’s everyone else who has problems with you.

Because people are judgemental,
Because people think that their way is right.

Some people are not tolerant of others,
Some people mock others for not being a certain way,

Just as they were mocked for not being a certain way in their own past.

Many people may think they are better than others,
So they mock each other,
They attack each other,
They create problems for others because others created problems for them,
It’s a vicious cycle.

Imagine you are 30 years old, never having seen the outside world,
One day, you decided to go outside with a t-shit made for children, with unwashed hair, and no shoes.
Someone mocks you for it.
Someone creates a problem for you,
Even though you never had problems before,
No one ever gave you trouble for the way you are,
But suddenly, you are being mocked,
Suddenly, because others have problems with you, you now have problems with yourself.
Their reality of the world starts to affect you,
You accept their criticism as your own problem,
It was the others who created the problem for you,
Now that created problem is stuck in your mind.

You don't have any problems with yourself,
but some people have problems with you.

It’s up to you to not let others make up problems that you don’t have.