You can listen and learn,
But you will never learn as much as if you lived it yourself.
Never take anyone's advice for certainty,
The best way to learn is to do things yourself.
You will get more experience from doing the event.
Everyone experiences events differently,
What one can experience from one event,
Can be experienced differently from another.
Success or failure of an event can bring very different experiences.
You may even repeat the experience and get a different result.
Nevertheless, talking about the experience can help you prepare for the experience.
But talking about the experience will never replace doing the experience yourself.